Monday, December 6, 2010

Just A Thought

It always baffles me that as soon as a "straight" girl knows or perceives that you are a lesbian, their comfort levels drop. There's always the assumption that you want them or even worse... they fear that you are going to hit on them... This maybe true in some circles but most often or not, it is the farthest thing on the mind.

Mind you, one does notice the straight girl, but most lesbians that I know would like to have one of their kind. Less stress...less hassle and far less complications with dipping... Backtracking a bit ...Lesbians are complicated as hell, so I stand corrected.

We don't change because we are, we don't all of a sudden want to "bed" you when we didn't think of you that way before.... Nothing has changed in the dynamic.

For the record, our minds work in the same normal way as any other human being... Think about it, as a "straight" girl, do you want..... do you think of bedding every guy that crossed your path...NEITHER do we think of women in that manner, give or take there are some hound dogs amongst us... Yet the fact remains we know who we want and at times know what we need.

"Straight", lesbians make the same mistakes in relations as you do, so ease up a bit. ... Your foolishness is so "stone age and tiresome".. Get over yourselves......

I see "straights" everyday, I have "straight" friends and life goes on. I don't want to hit on them and I am "certain" they don't want to hit on me... It is what it is.

Maybe it's your insecurity about who you are ...................................... Maybe it's your own desires........................................................................... Just perhaps a truth about yourself maybe reveal................................... God, we may just be that scary...........Yet to each their own closet.

It never gets easy......

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